Have you tried helping someone, be it your own family, loved one or colleagues, but ended up backfired and not being appreciated. Worst of all, your intention is being misinterpreted. When you tried to help them, they thought that you are trying to bring them down. A simple example, your teenage sister went out partying, only back around four in the morning. Your primary concern - you worried that, the boys might take advantages of her or she might get involved in an unhealthy activity. It's only natural for parents or family member to think that way. On the other hand, she do not like you to control her life. She think that she can take good care of herself. She think that it's ok to have fun until early in the morning or until the sun rise. She want enjoyment! Release tension after whole week of studying! It's a wild world out there. When will she realised that the family is worried sick of her safety? Hope when she realised it, it's not too late then. Hope she won't need to hear "SEE, I told you so! But you just wouldn't listen!!"
You do not know how, what, where and when things will strike! And when it strikes, you better pray hard God is there to help you! By then, you will be telling to yourself that you are not so smart after all. It will be too late then.
You do not know how, what, where and when things will strike! And when it strikes, you better pray hard God is there to help you! By then, you will be telling to yourself that you are not so smart after all. It will be too late then.
2 comments:
Yep, been there. Sometimes all you can do is advice them. Totally up to that person if he/she wants to listen to yr advice. If they do not want to listen, they'll probably fall down, pick themselves up and realise their mistake someday. Too bad at times, all is left if bitter tears. You reap what you sow. This seems like the most logical of all of life's lessons.
Tina - Yeahh, agreed.
Karen - hmm, how u know huh? U kena?
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