If your loved one told you that, he/she is going to accept an offer to work overseas,
1. What will be your first reaction like ?
2. What do you think of next ?
3. Will you allow him/her to go ?
4. If yes, why ? If no, why ?
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* All opinion appreciated. Thank you in advance.*
11 comments:
This is a very good topic. First reaction : "You gotta be kidding!' Working overseas.. gosh..that's truly something to think about.. Safety. Yep, safe country to live and work in. I'd say..yes...if it's a temporary job (in a non-war zone country!). If it were permanent, he'd have to take the whole family along. hehe...
My first reaction :
(if is my bf)
Is he going to leave me alone here ? am I really sure this relationship will last long?. Not to say I don’t have confident in him, its just I care too much to let go. And I don’t want him to go. But on another hand, I dunwan him to miss the chance, but atleast give me time to think and to prepared myself and to prepared the worse thing which may happen then only u go. And pls stop give me the idea that our relationship will never change forever.
My decision : to let go
Let go u for your future and also for my future, if u good, eventually me also good, but as I said.. let me feel secure and let me fully trusted u first. Sound abit childish, but, hihi, who want to let bf away rite? So.. just go lah !! hopefully me will trust u and pray hard our relationship wil last longer than I thought. If not, later he said me control him and not think of his future lah wat lah.. actually really susah made decision.. coz ah, laki mana boleh percaya one?
1. What about sex?
2. What about sex?
3. Will there be sex?
4. Sex!
Kidding, (See, I can joke too!) To me this is a very serious topic and some tough decisions have to be made. Heart breaking for some. Sadly, I do not have the anwsers...... :_(
this is such a great timing: ok, here's my situation:
i left the phils to work here in the US, let go of my bf then.
now i am with someone new, he is leaving for the US airforce on Oct.
so, my answers and what i actually did is, i agreed to have him go to the airforce, on oct is for bootcamp. bootcamp is the military schooling, so he'll be back in 2 months. but if it comes to assignments (like overseas assignments for longer periods) already, i guess that's another story. if by then we are married, i would want to go and stay with him wherever airforce would have to take him.
i never wanted to be selfish so i'll support him. but it is his responsibility to recognize that
sense of giving and love - at least for that matter.
oh well, good luck!
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Aiyo,what to think abt next ar? Alot of things actually, whether he/she is going away permanently or just short term? Will we still be together or not? am i goign to trust her or even, do i have faith in myself doing long-distance r/ship? I will let him/her make the decision,of cos i will want him/her to stay back, but what if sth goes wrong if i keep him/her with me? Let your partner make the decision bah..
Tina, Karen, Carryn, MahaguruSia, Abi, Ask Helen, GorgeouslyGeorgina, dSaint, Anon - Million thanks for sharing. I will post my thoughts soon. Thanks again.
Reaction : O_O *gives devastated-u-r-leaving-me-look*
Thoughts : Do I Trust her ? Can I accept to be away from her, will we be together always ? How much is our love for each other ? Is there another way ? How long would she be gone ? how do We keep communicating to each other ? When will she be coming back ? Can I stand firm while she is gone ?
Oh Lord Please grant me your guidance so that I will know waht is the true path for us both, our future is uncertain and with so many circumstances taking into count, I pray to you my lord to always bless us so that we two of one heart can always be together and we will thank you daily and always for all your blessings that you have heaped to us, amen.
Its up to her, her decision to make, just be as supportive as can. If she needs to go, and if she wants to go, support her in her decisions.
Quote :"To Have, Not to Hold"
SCC - Thankz manz! :)
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Mr Siumai... ewwwwllll. Come to papa or grandpapa?
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