Imagine this... Monday morning, Ms. A comes to work with a scowl face. Throw her keys on the table. Irritated with the piles of work, mumbling and start complaining to her neighbour. Everything doesn't seems to be right for her the whole morning. A poor young man even got scolded for no apparent reason. We heard him said "Naaaaaaa" without showing his middle finger. On being asked, he said "NA = Negative Attitude".
On the other hand, Ms. B, comes in with a happy cheering face. Greeting anyone who bump into her. Seing Ms. B, makes me feel good too. Sort like a reflection.
This is all about attitude. Is it that difficult to change our attitude? How do we manage this change after 20,30 or 40 years we have been used to it? What is required? Persistent determination? Strong discipline?
Read one book (can't remember the title), points out the differences of "Positive and Negative Attitude".
The person with negative attitude dwells on problems.
The person with positive attitude concerntrates on solutions.
The person with negative attitude finds fault with others.
The person with positive attitude looks for the good in others.
The person with the negative attitude focuses on what's missing.
The person with the positive attitude counts his or her blessings.
The person with the negative attitude sees limitations.
The person with the positive attitude sees posibilities.
Now don't you think "Change in Attitude" is good, provided we are changing for good course? Whether we are happy or not, depends very much on our attitude in life. If we are positive, we will be happy. But if we are negative, we are not only feel miserable but we also make those around us feels the blues too.
On the other hand, Ms. B, comes in with a happy cheering face. Greeting anyone who bump into her. Seing Ms. B, makes me feel good too. Sort like a reflection.
This is all about attitude. Is it that difficult to change our attitude? How do we manage this change after 20,30 or 40 years we have been used to it? What is required? Persistent determination? Strong discipline?
Read one book (can't remember the title), points out the differences of "Positive and Negative Attitude".
The person with negative attitude dwells on problems.
The person with positive attitude concerntrates on solutions.
The person with negative attitude finds fault with others.
The person with positive attitude looks for the good in others.
The person with the negative attitude focuses on what's missing.
The person with the positive attitude counts his or her blessings.
The person with the negative attitude sees limitations.
The person with the positive attitude sees posibilities.
Now don't you think "Change in Attitude" is good, provided we are changing for good course? Whether we are happy or not, depends very much on our attitude in life. If we are positive, we will be happy. But if we are negative, we are not only feel miserable but we also make those around us feels the blues too.
2 comments:
Positive thinking is a practice. Positive thinking is something you have to do everyday as often as possible when ever you can. By practicing positive thinking everyday you create a state of mind where you are constantly positive - it becomes a state of being positive. In the end you create a tremendous amount of positive energy - that only creates positive situations for you everyday (extract frm a website). ...Tina
woahhh, tot tat's frm ur own mouth la tina :D
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